C6 Session 44 - Respecting Others' Boundaries

Key Questions

WHO sets boundaries for others?

WHAT are some ways you can show your respect for others' boundaries when socializing?

WHERE is a place you may find people with unclear boundaries? 

WHY is it important to be very observant and not assume what other people's boundaries are?

WHEN is the only time you may have to overstep someone's boundaries?

HOW should you act if someone reacts to you overstepping their boundaries?

Self-Reflection Points

• A person's boundaries are like their home. Don’t assume it is alright for you to enter their space or “home” without clear permission.  Even if the gate is open!

• A person can feel like you have "gone too far" with a simple hug or an innocent joke. Practice social awareness & universal etiquette, especially when around people you don't know.

• Due to different cultures, upbringing, and even trauma, we all have different feelings about our personal space. You may mean no harm however, it is appropriate to not overreact when we get asked to back away.

• Some public spaces, or crowded places like transportation, family gatherings, or at work. 

• Some "Adult's only" places/clubs/events, etc may allow you the freedom to touch someone's body while others may have restrictions. Again don't assume that it is okay to invade someone's personal space unless you are clearly invited to no matter the situation. 

• Be attentive, peoples boundaries can change. What was okay yesterday may not be okay today. No means No!

• The only time you should overstep anyone's boundaries is if they plan to hurt themselves or another person. 

• Some people even set boundaries around the people in their inner circle, like a child or a mate. Ask questions like, do you mind if I give them ...? or Is it okay if I talk to them? This can vary from person to person.

• When entering a person's physical home don't just walk in and "make yourself comfortable" unless you are told to do so.  Don't assume no matter what the relationship. It's a sign of respect

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